Friday, April 16, 2010

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Thursday, April 15, 2010

13 months


Clara turns 13 months old!

In a few days Clara will turn 13 months old! She can say mama and
dada but her favorite thing to say is "what's that" and "who's that?"
She seems to have favorite objects she inquires after: the fan, any
and all shoes, Picaso, and a painting Jason recently framed. A friend
swears they heard her say "Dora" and "Clara" but that's about it for
now. She understands a fair amount, almost any instruction (like
"let's clean up, lift up your hands," etc).

Today was her first haircut, trimming her bangs and a little off the
back to even out her hair. She wasn't thrilled, but didn't cry too
much. She's been much better in her gym class--no longer cries at the
parachute but laughs. She is standing for several seconds at a time
but hasn't taken her first steps yet. (phew!) She loves to be around
people and will tap perfect strangers sitting next to her at church
and smile at them waiting for them to smile back. She seems to be
more dependent on her blanket which she likes to take with her all
over the house (she's not allowed to hold it at meal times!)

We no longer need the food mill as she can eat anything we eat without
much special preparation (I still mix spicer foods (like Jason's
Indian cooking) with boiled sweet potato to reduce some of the spice.
She'll use a spoon correctly if she wants too (or sometimes she'll
look right at you while she dumps the contents on her tray!) She
likes to sort out her food, separating the cheerios from the yogurt
melts. She has successfully transitioned to cow's milk and drinks
about 16 to 24 oz per day. She has six teeth (four on top and two on
bottom), the top four seem to be coming in at the same time so she is
often chewing on something. She still uses a bottle at nap time and
bedtime but is able to use a cup with a straw to drink water (we'll
have to start working on taking the bottle away, yikes!).

She likes to imitate us more than ever. If I'm reading, she wants to
be reading. She likes turning the pages in her books and "reading" on
her own. She has tried to help Jason swiffer. She has learned to
unzip her clothing (convienant when she gets too warm she can take care of
her own jacket!) and takes off her socks and shoes (and tries to put
her shoes back on but this is a little too challenging) leading to a
lot of missing socks!

I'm excited and nervous looking forward to her first steps. It may be
another month or two, we'll have to wait and see! Any advice on
weaning off the bottle would be appreciated :)

Monday, April 5, 2010

Video from Clara's first b-day

Friday, April 2, 2010

The sleep routine


So even though Clara is still sick (a bit of cough and lots of phlegm) her sleeping patterns the past couple of weeks have improved! We get ready for bed around 7:30 PM (or earlier if she is acting tired or fussy) and the ritual (described in the 12 month post) lasts about a half hour, then I leave. She fusses for a few seconds (not even a minute) then goes back to playing by herself in the crib until she falls asleep. She is sleeping 12 hours at night and one nap during the day (2 to 3 hours long). She still has "baby nightmares" which technically are more like night terrors (she wakes up in the earlier part of the evening crying but isn't actually awake so if you try to pick her up and comfort her, she does wake up and then is mad!) She usually falls back asleep on her own (I listen from the baby monitor and only go upstairs if it lasts more than a couple of minutes).

It seems that the sleep habits are always changing slightly, I guess I just better enjoy this while it lasts!

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Clara's first birthday


Clara turned one year old yesterday!

(yay!!)

This month we've been dealing with her changing sleep schedule.  Some
days she is like the "good old days" when she goes to bed with very
little fuss after our standard bed routine (bath, bottle, book (brush
teeth) then sleep.  Some days (especially with the lost hour this past
weekend) she stays up til 9 PM (or later!), tired but refusing to
sleep unless there is someone in the room with her.    The cry-it-out
technique doesn't work too well because she has figured how to make
herself throw up when she gets very upset (and who wants a baby to
pass out from exhaustion in their own spit up? so we have to go in and
change all the sheets etc if it gets to this point).  The good news is
she is sleeping 12 hour blocks with a good 3 hour nap.

We started a new activity for Clara--gym class! It was awesome the
first night since she came home so exhausted she went right to bed (no
such luck after tonight's class).  She is the youngest in the class
(the only time we could attend is really meant for slightly older
babies--or at least babies who walk well, and Clara is still in the
cruising stage.)   We have a circle activity (she spends a fair amount
of time studying the other kids and pointing out the pictures of
cookie monster and elmo on the walls).   Afterwards, there are a few
obstacle courses, her favorite is a little sloped bridge with handles
on each side, so she can "walk" without our support by holding on to
the rails.  She is not a big fan of the parachute game afterwards
(afraid when it falls to close to her head) but loves the bubbles and
stamp at the end.  They sang "Happy Birthday" on Tuesday and she got
a special birthday stamp :)

One of the many late nights, Clara was sitting up in her crib and out
of no where started clapping.  She started giggling and I shouted for
Jason to come up and see (he has been trying to teach her this for
several months).  She loves to point, especially to photos of us.  She
is always wanting to know what things are called, using the universal
"grunt and point."  She loves to learn, always trying to "read" a book
(aka turn pages, point to things and talk to herself).  She has
learned how to use her stacking colored "doughnuts."  She watches a
few minutes of Elmo every day and on weekends watches a little "Dora
la exploradora" on the Spanish channel.  Most of the time though, she
would rather be exploring her world, and especially Picaso's cage.  We
haven't purchased and push/pull toys yet, but she still manages to
push everything she can.  She likes to climb the stairs (but can't go
downstairs yet).  She's a busy girl these days!

Clara remains a good eater, still eating whatever we eat (she's a big
fan of tomato sauce).   We haven't really transitioned to a cup yet
(she does use a cup with a straw and I guess we'll have to make the
transition sooner than later) and I think the bedtime bottle will be
the last to go (our crutch to get her to sleep).  She can use a spoon
when she wants to (ie. when she is hungry) but other times will just
throw the spoon to the ground knowing that we'll feed her and she
doesn't have to go through the hassle of bringing the spoon to her
mouth.

Yesterday we went to the pediatrician's office for her well-child check
and some shots (poor thing). She cried but forgot about it when the doctor handed her a Barbie band-aid. Her growth percentiles were 95th for height and 75th for weight so she is healthy growing baby.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

adventures in separation anxiety



So Clara use to sleep without much difficulty, bottle, book, blanket, bed. (Altogether we use to spend about a half hour winding down together). We use to walk out when she was still awake but starting to get sleepy.

Well, that all changed about a week ago when instead of just falling asleep on her own when we left the room, she cries non-stop til we return. Standing up, screaming, and inconsolable. Part of the problem could be Clara being sick with a cold. She doesn't even want to be held,just wants to have one of us close to her crib. Last night I tried the standard "cry it out" thing for about 15 minutes and when I went back into the room she was in the middle of tasting fingers in her mouth. Unfortunately these same fingers triggered her gag reflex just in time to get vomit all over me.

The other thing is that she use to sleep 12 hours, regardless of what time she'd go to bed she'd stay in bed for 12 hours. Now, doesn't matter how late she goes to bed, she is always up by 7:30 AM (sometimes with dark circles under her eyes).

The one good thing is that overall she stays asleep once she falls asleep but the 30 minute routine has ballooned into a 2.5 hr routine. Eventually she finally falls asleep, but it's definitely a struggle. I stay in the room with her sometimes and be asleep myself by 7:30 only to wake up close to 8 PM and see her still wide awake, standing, and slightly fussing.

Any one else notice changes in their sleep patterns when your ittle one was around one year old?